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Feb. 1st, 2006 03:06 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
shubassdkI'm so bad. Seriously, I must be the biggest flirt on earth.
Over the past month I've been asked out on dates by approximately 20 different guys. I've turned them all down. I've chatted seriously with 5-10 guys, all of whom believe that I'm mostly talking to them. I think I've made three of them get a seriously crush on me or maybe even fall in love. The first one was Magnus, who was just...too much. Then there's Michael, who is really the sweetest guy I've ever talked to. He says the nicest things, but they don't feel forced. He constantly calls me "sweety" and "gorgeous". We're really alike, because he's a geek, too. He appreciates movies and comedy just as much as me. Only catch is that he works in Bilka and wants to start a career in detail. It's not a a catch, per say, it just goes against my fantasy of marrying a science major called Magnus. And now I've added flirt #3 to the list. Rune, who's four years into his Law degree. We have the same kind of humour, the same personalities, are more or less at the same points in our lives. And he just said, "no, now I want you as my girlfriend!"
The problem is that now I'm talking to Rune and I feel that we have more in common than Michael and I, but I still feel like I'm cheating on Michael. But I like 'em both... I've talked more with Michael, maybe that's why...
You know what? All three of them are over 190 cm, which is waaay more than me. Kissing either of them would be a problem.
I really am a bad bad person...
Over the past month I've been asked out on dates by approximately 20 different guys. I've turned them all down. I've chatted seriously with 5-10 guys, all of whom believe that I'm mostly talking to them. I think I've made three of them get a seriously crush on me or maybe even fall in love. The first one was Magnus, who was just...too much. Then there's Michael, who is really the sweetest guy I've ever talked to. He says the nicest things, but they don't feel forced. He constantly calls me "sweety" and "gorgeous". We're really alike, because he's a geek, too. He appreciates movies and comedy just as much as me. Only catch is that he works in Bilka and wants to start a career in detail. It's not a a catch, per say, it just goes against my fantasy of marrying a science major called Magnus. And now I've added flirt #3 to the list. Rune, who's four years into his Law degree. We have the same kind of humour, the same personalities, are more or less at the same points in our lives. And he just said, "no, now I want you as my girlfriend!"
The problem is that now I'm talking to Rune and I feel that we have more in common than Michael and I, but I still feel like I'm cheating on Michael. But I like 'em both... I've talked more with Michael, maybe that's why...
You know what? All three of them are over 190 cm, which is waaay more than me. Kissing either of them would be a problem.
I really am a bad bad person...
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Date: 2006-02-01 06:38 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-02-01 10:17 am (UTC)Sending several sweet, young, tall Danish blokes to Renne :)
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Date: 2006-02-01 10:21 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-02-01 07:51 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-02-01 10:19 am (UTC)They're just both so sweet...!! I just got this morning-mail from Michael:
Tjah søde, dagen er allerede startet super fantastisk. At vågne op til sådan et brev er helt vildt lækkert, og jeg tvivler stærkt på at der er nogen eller nogen som helst der kan spolere mit gode humør idag. Takket være dig - your too good to be true! *pinches arn - ouch!* Men nej, det er skam virkeligt! *saligt smil*
Håber også du får en helt fantastisk dag!
Kæmpe Kram
Michael
That's just...gah!!
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Date: 2006-02-01 05:13 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-02-02 12:26 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-02-01 08:07 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-02-01 10:21 am (UTC)But, you're right. I haven't "promised myself away" to any of 'em, so it can't be all bad :D
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Date: 2006-02-01 09:51 am (UTC)But 190? Are you serious? *gets pain in the neck just from thinking of it* That's tall!
Oh, and I'm sure Rune is nice and sweet and everything. But a law student? *shudders* don't even get me started on that one.
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Date: 2006-02-01 10:24 am (UTC)Yes, I know. Finally someone who understands!! 30 cm's is a lot of neck pains, I tell ya! I kissed that Anders-guy two nights in a row (he's 195) on our Rustur and I really couldn't just keep going, because then my head would roll off.
Heh - I knew you'd respond to that ;) But it really sounded interesting - EU-law. It's certainly more interesting than Bilka... No, I'm not prejudiced!
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Date: 2006-02-01 10:34 am (UTC)Dating someone 20 cm taller than you can be a pain. Trust me. I ended up loving the small step in his apartment. Made everything so much easier.
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Date: 2006-02-01 10:42 am (UTC)Yes, I can very much imagine that! He had to bend his knees to be able to reach me, but then we found a step I could stand on. Unfortunately it was the main doorway, so *everyone* and their mother had to go through. Which is why I'm so surprised there are no pictures...
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Date: 2006-02-01 11:29 am (UTC)Yeah, that's what I thought about me and Søren too. Until last night when I was having a beer with his friend who produced pictures from the tour des chambres where I met Søren. Not pretty.
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Date: 2006-02-02 12:29 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-02-02 08:42 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-02-01 02:14 pm (UTC)Nothing wrong with flirting with several guys. I'd go for Rune btw. Law school, yay! And you're at the same point in your lives, that's very important.
But, of course, you don't have to chose to commit with any of them.
I have to add though, and I have this from a boy: If you flirt with them, smile at them and generally act friendly towards them? They think you're into them, and in more than just a 'quick flirt' way. Because boys are easy.
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Date: 2006-02-02 12:11 am (UTC)Yeah, I think our professional lives fit more than the whole Bilka-thing with Michael. But Michael and I have the same personalities... He's a geek like me (but no too much) and all the other stuff I mentioned in my post. And he is so sweet to me! Read the comment to
You know, that is a very very important thing to know...!! Why haven't anyone told me that before!?
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Date: 2006-02-01 04:04 pm (UTC)No, honey, you're *not* a bad person. You're having fun!
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Date: 2006-02-02 12:13 am (UTC)You know. I really am having fun. Waaay too much.
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Date: 2006-02-04 09:49 am (UTC)Good things happen to good people. You are good. Ergo, good things will happen to you, too.
(I could be a professor in logic!)
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Date: 2006-02-04 12:22 pm (UTC)(you should! You could bond with Rasmus, who studies logical philosophy)
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Date: 2006-02-04 12:46 pm (UTC)