1. What element of friendship do you prize highest? 2. Where do you stand on sex? Overrated, icky, fun, oh-god-how-come-people-don't-just-do-this-all-the-damn-time? 3. Rec a song. And explain why you chose it. 4. Ever tried any drugs? Ever been tempted? 5. Do you believe in love? Not in the sense of family and such, but in the sense of something beyond a combination of biology and chemistry? 6. What do you hate most about LJ?
1. I think the part where you can just be totally yourself around your friends and they will just laugh if you say something stupid/annoying/weird. The part where you feel totally relaxed around people and don't have to think about everthing you say before saying it.
2. The last option. So *completely* the last one. I mean, sure it's annoying when members of a group don't turn up for a study date, but when you think about it wouldn't you rather be home with your boyfriend/girlfriend having fun? This is possibly TMI, but the last time I was with Rasmus we did it 6 times in the course of 12 hours. There was nothing left of him in the end. I was so proud *tear*
3. I would very very much like to recommend The Stroke's new album, because it is simply genious. And Arctic Monkeys, because it is fabulous. And Franz and Michael Buble still rocks my socks, but I that's more than 60 songs, so I'm uploading a Spanish song called "Camisa Negra" by Juanes, because it is wonderful and I love it dearly. Nina from my high school class (who I only just started talking to after 1½ years of silence) sent me this song and another and I'm in love with it. So, here. 4. No, never. The closest thing to drugs I've ever tried is a water pipe and that'd not really...nah. I've actually never even been offered drugs, not even hash o.O I think I'd like to try it at some point, but with people I know, so if I have a weird reaction they'll be there. Not anything more extreme than that, thank you very much! 5. I would really really like to, but I think the years of reading Illustreret Videnskab and generally being a scientist it's hard for me not to think rationally on this subject. But maybe it's just because I've never *really* been in love (or because I'm starting to forget how completely mental I was in the Rasmus-situation...) 6. Uhm, I don't know. Maybe that when you have nothing to do no one updates and when you're extremely busy everyone and their grandmom updates, which makes it really difficult to keep up.
1. Hm. Hvorfor er det præcist at alle mine venner er alle andre steder end KBH? Unfair.
2. Ahahahaha, somehow I knew that'd be your choice. But groovy. And, you know, I kinda agree. *shifty eyes*
3. SPANISH! *fangirls* Oh, and apropros of nothing except foreign languages, you *have* to see Yossi & Jagger at some point. Also? Hedwig & the Angry Inch. I'm just sayin'.
4. I know the feeling. I kind of want to try pot, but on the other hand, I'm worried about getting addicted, particularly after my smoking scare, so maybe not...
5. Hmm....I don't know - I just *need* for there to be more - like, we don't just stay together out of obligation, you know? I don't nessecarily want lightening and confetti and all that, but just waking up next to someone and just being *happy*, content that it's *them* and there's no one you'd rather see, even with bad morning breath, bed hair and grumpy. I just - I want to believe that that's *real*.
6. Ahahaha, yes. Though I have a theory that this is because *everyone* updates on week days, and no one updates on weekends. And what's up with that, anyway?
Oookay. Well, it might not have been with who you think it was. It wasn't Rasmus. It was a guy called Sebastian. I met him in a gay bar (yes, I fucking did) and I had a one-night-stand. Uh-huh. He was a soldier/studying computer-thingies, so that was pretty nice. I went home with him, but I really didn't think anything would happen other than having a bit of fun. But that pretty much evolved quite quickly... But he was so big! And I was a little virgin! It wasn't that good, but it was okay. I didn't really mind I didn't know him, for some reason. It took the tension off with Rasmus. But that was what I told Michael in confidence which I told other people. And the reason I don't trust him any more...
And just to get it out of my system, the Rasmus-deal started with me going home with him as well. Just so you know. Yes, apparently I am a slut...
And, yes, I did very very much see the irony in me picking up *the only* straight man at a gay bar! He was there by him self. For some reason... I went for a walk with Rasmus at some point where we ran into Sebastian and some blonde bimbo. I completely broke down with laughter. I had already told Rasmus about how I lost my virginity, so he knew the story. His reaction? "But he looks so big/muscular!" Said the tiny, thin Rasmus... Aww...
Yeah, I think I'm pretty comfortable with my sexuality. And that's a pretty good feeling, actually :)
Well, that would have been with Rasmus. And yet again I didn't think it would happen, mostly because I'd told him to stay above the naval area, but of course that progressed a lot, too. We went back to his parents' place, because that was the closest and we just...had a lot of fun. Because my only experiense with sex had been so bad I didn't really expect anything remotely close to fireworks, but it was actually really good! He knew I had practically no experience, so he pretty much guided me through the particular parts of it and was really understanding. It was so nice... I think we were in his bed by 2 or 3 am and I didn't leave the room until 12 hours and many many good experiences later ;) And only one hour of sleep. All was good! I hadn't noticed but he had given me an extremely big hickey, so everyone looked at me with a very weird look on their faces. I went to Maria's slumber-party birthday in the evening and actually fell asleep at the national football match, that's how exhausted I was. They kept saying I looked like I had been raped, judging by the hickeys on my neck. And that I glowed...
Yeah, I would like to find someone like that, again... Because I'm not in love with Adrian. He's nice, sure, but that's kinda...it. He's definitely in love with me, but I don't know. And it's not fair to him to let him hang like that, so I have to set a date and if my feelings haven't changed by then I have to break up with him.
Exactly, I'm trying to cool things down a bit. He's already met my parents and stuff... It's just too much and I'm not even sure I'm ready/have the time for a boyfriend. It takes a crap-load of time, I'll have you know!
But if you have any questions in the future about this whole...thing. Just ask me :) Also if you at some point need pointers and tips I will gladly be of service!
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Date: 2006-02-26 04:25 pm (UTC)2. Where do you stand on sex? Overrated, icky, fun, oh-god-how-come-people-don't-just-do-this-all-the-damn-time?
3. Rec a song. And explain why you chose it.
4. Ever tried any drugs? Ever been tempted?
5. Do you believe in love? Not in the sense of family and such, but in the sense of something beyond a combination of biology and chemistry?
6. What do you hate most about LJ?
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Date: 2006-02-26 04:42 pm (UTC)2. The last option. So *completely* the last one. I mean, sure it's annoying when members of a group don't turn up for a study date, but when you think about it wouldn't you rather be home with your boyfriend/girlfriend having fun? This is possibly TMI, but the last time I was with Rasmus we did it 6 times in the course of 12 hours. There was nothing left of him in the end. I was so proud *tear*
3. I would very very much like to recommend The Stroke's new album, because it is simply genious. And Arctic Monkeys, because it is fabulous. And Franz and Michael Buble still rocks my socks, but I that's more than 60 songs, so I'm uploading a Spanish song called "Camisa Negra" by Juanes, because it is wonderful and I love it dearly. Nina from my high school class (who I only just started talking to after 1½ years of silence) sent me this song and another and I'm in love with it. So, here.
4. No, never. The closest thing to drugs I've ever tried is a water pipe and that'd not really...nah. I've actually never even been offered drugs, not even hash o.O I think I'd like to try it at some point, but with people I know, so if I have a weird reaction they'll be there. Not anything more extreme than that, thank you very much!
5. I would really really like to, but I think the years of reading Illustreret Videnskab and generally being a scientist it's hard for me not to think rationally on this subject. But maybe it's just because I've never *really* been in love (or because I'm starting to forget how completely mental I was in the Rasmus-situation...)
6. Uhm, I don't know. Maybe that when you have nothing to do no one updates and when you're extremely busy everyone and their grandmom updates, which makes it really difficult to keep up.
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Date: 2006-02-27 09:04 pm (UTC)2. Ahahahaha, somehow I knew that'd be your choice. But groovy. And, you know, I kinda agree. *shifty eyes*
3. SPANISH! *fangirls* Oh, and apropros of nothing except foreign languages, you *have* to see Yossi & Jagger at some point. Also? Hedwig & the Angry Inch. I'm just sayin'.
4. I know the feeling. I kind of want to try pot, but on the other hand, I'm worried about getting addicted, particularly after my smoking scare, so maybe not...
5. Hmm....I don't know - I just *need* for there to be more - like, we don't just stay together out of obligation, you know? I don't nessecarily want lightening and confetti and all that, but just waking up next to someone and just being *happy*, content that it's *them* and there's no one you'd rather see, even with bad morning breath, bed hair and grumpy. I just - I want to believe that that's *real*.
6. Ahahaha, yes. Though I have a theory that this is because *everyone* updates on week days, and no one updates on weekends. And what's up with that, anyway?
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Date: 2006-02-27 07:19 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-02-27 07:51 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-02-27 07:52 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-02-27 07:54 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-02-27 07:55 pm (UTC)tell me about your first time.
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Date: 2006-02-27 08:02 pm (UTC)And just to get it out of my system, the Rasmus-deal started with me going home with him as well. Just so you know. Yes, apparently I am a slut...
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Date: 2006-02-27 08:05 pm (UTC)*smiles at you*
I don't see any sluts here. I see a person who is comfortable with her own sexuality. And yay for that!
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Date: 2006-02-27 08:11 pm (UTC)And, yes, I did very very much see the irony in me picking up *the only* straight man at a gay bar! He was there by him self. For some reason... I went for a walk with Rasmus at some point where we ran into Sebastian and some blonde bimbo. I completely broke down with laughter. I had already told Rasmus about how I lost my virginity, so he knew the story. His reaction? "But he looks so big/muscular!" Said the tiny, thin Rasmus... Aww...
Yeah, I think I'm pretty comfortable with my sexuality. And that's a pretty good feeling, actually :)
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Date: 2006-02-27 08:14 pm (UTC)So I guess my next question should be:
tell me about your second time (which almost became my first question, but I decided to be traditional).
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Date: 2006-02-27 08:21 pm (UTC)Well, that would have been with Rasmus. And yet again I didn't think it would happen, mostly because I'd told him to stay above the naval area, but of course that progressed a lot, too. We went back to his parents' place, because that was the closest and we just...had a lot of fun. Because my only experiense with sex had been so bad I didn't really expect anything remotely close to fireworks, but it was actually really good! He knew I had practically no experience, so he pretty much guided me through the particular parts of it and was really understanding. It was so nice... I think we were in his bed by 2 or 3 am and I didn't leave the room until 12 hours and many many good experiences later ;) And only one hour of sleep. All was good! I hadn't noticed but he had given me an extremely big hickey, so everyone looked at me with a very weird look on their faces. I went to Maria's slumber-party birthday in the evening and actually fell asleep at the national football match, that's how exhausted I was. They kept saying I looked like I had been raped, judging by the hickeys on my neck. And that I glowed...
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Date: 2006-02-27 08:24 pm (UTC)Also, plz find me someone like that soon. Stop. Am going crazy. Stop.
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Date: 2006-02-27 08:30 pm (UTC)Yeah, I would like to find someone like that, again... Because I'm not in love with Adrian. He's nice, sure, but that's kinda...it. He's definitely in love with me, but I don't know. And it's not fair to him to let him hang like that, so I have to set a date and if my feelings haven't changed by then I have to break up with him.
And now I feel like Rasmus, I really do.
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Date: 2006-02-27 08:32 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-02-27 08:34 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-02-27 08:36 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-02-27 08:38 pm (UTC)Just pimped this post to Chris. I wonder what her reaction is...
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Date: 2006-02-27 08:38 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-02-27 08:41 pm (UTC)But if you have any questions in the future about this whole...thing. Just ask me :) Also if you at some point need pointers and tips I will gladly be of service!
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Date: 2006-02-27 08:42 pm (UTC)